On Public Perception of War

These are my thoughts about the existence of war that has always been within most of human culture. Before I do so, however, I want to make my readers aware that this post has nothing to do with the civil unrest that has been going on in our society as of lately. This is about general history and the human condition.

In ancient Greek religion, Ares is the God of War, but He is also not the only God who takes an interest in the field. Athene is the Goddess of War, but She does not have the bloodlust of it. Rather, She fights only when necessary, preferring peace and diplomacy, but when She must fight, She is the Master of Strategy and cannot be defeated. Aphrodite carries the Epithet of Warlike and Armed. She was called Warlike perhaps because of Her association and love relationship with Ares, and called Armed because sometimes war and love found themselves intertwined, such as with the Trojan War. It has also been suggested that She had earlier Manifestation as a Warrior-Goddess. Of course, we cannot deny that the passionate life of humans can sometimes lead us to fight for love and what is our desire. But our love life does not have to involve any kind of confrontation. In fact, most of Aphrodite's Epithets have nothing to do with war.  But the fact remains that it can be a result. It's in our nature to fight for the things we want. There is power in it.

I offer a far different view on war. While war is not something that we should always jump to, a lot of us in the West are free today because our people won against an enemy who didn't want us to be. Example, the American Revolution. We did not want the fight, but the fight came anyway, beyond our control. And had it not been for the strength, strategy and power to push back the forces of oppression, the Free World might be very different today. Sometimes the only language an oppressor understands is the sword. Sometimes the sword is useful in defending and advancing what is right.

Sometimes we have to fight because we have no other choice if we want to survive and flourish. No matter how much we may want peace, that doesn't mean others will. Now I'm not saying that we should choose war as a first option. Peace should flourish wherever possible. But sometimes war is necessary. Although I do think people use it far more often than they should. 

War also doesn't just have to do with the battles that we commonly equate it with. It doesn't have to just be swords and guns on a battlefield. It can refer to the wars that we wage in our own personal lives. We all have private battles that we share with the world, and private battles that we never tell anyone about. It could be with physical and mental illness, finances, career, school, family life, or our personal feelings of worth and accomplishment. We all have things that we hope to achieve victory over or in. In some ways, life is a battle. I have accepted this, I just ask Athene and Ares to be my Generals. :)

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

The Freedom That Hellenism Offers

One core concept that has always made me cling to Hellenism in my life is that of personal freedom. There are religions and ways of life out there that are so restrictive on the human condition. They want to control your sex life, your beliefs, and your politics to name a few. Now I'm not trying to arrogantly tear down those religions or philosophies, I'm just stating an observable fact of serious human control, when I believe that we were given life for the purpose of enjoyment and fulfillment.

The ancient Greeks were a free people of both mind and body, even though the extension of that may have varied from City to City. In modern Hellenism, the basic premise is this, Enjoy life, just don't let anything control or destroy you.

In other words, eat the food, but don't let the food eat you. Enjoy your sex life, but don't become a slave to it or be reckless. In short, moderation. As long as you do not reach a point where your pleasures and passions destroy your life, harm others, or interfere with your ability to live a regulated life, do as you want. As an example, if I want to have a threesome, I can, as long as everyone is a consensual adult, we know that we are healthy and not giving each other diseases, and I don't become so addicted to it that I cannot enjoy life otherwise. What remains enjoyable and prosperous is good. Now I would cleanse myself before doing rituals afterwards, of course, because human sex creates miasma (ritual impurity), but sex itself would never be an offense. I can eat the foods I like, so long as I do not fall into gluttony, because that harms my health and potentially shortens my life. And I can drink the alcohol so long as I always have the ability to stop at a healthy point. As far as your private personal beliefs, neither the Gods or man care, they only care if those beliefs turn into hubris or harm. When it comes to your politics, again, just avoid hubris and harm. State your political beliefs freely and fight for them. You can be a socialist, you can be a capitalist, you can be Green Party, whatever. 

There is no punishment for being human, only the need to find a healthy balance with the things in your life and avoid hubris (arrogance). We are not against enjoying our pleasures and passions, we just don't let our pleasures and passions destroy us. Why is it important to create that balance? Because overindulgence and starvation are both equally destructive. We do not deprive ourselves of the things we like, because that can make one depressed, frustrated, and unhealthy, but we also don't drown ourselves in them, because that can also make one depressed, frustrated, and unhealthy. We don't say, "Don't do that with your life." Instead we say, "Be healthy with it." To my mind, this makes for the best life because it gives the best comfort and prosperity to the human condition. It allows joy, happiness and healthiness while also eliminating suffering.

To live your best life in accordance with Arete, and to enjoy every Day of it, is your own individual choice to make.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

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What If A Former Murderer Came To My Temple For Help?

In a discussion on this subject some time ago, I decided to draw my own conclusions on the matter, and that question is basically, "Is there an offense someone can make that can forever be unrepairable with the Gods?" In other words, is there a mistake that can make sure you can never be a Hellenist? Or at least, make sure you could never be part of any group or organization? I have thought about this myself extensively, "What if someone had been convicted of murder, served their time, wanted to change and be Hellenic, and came to my temple for help?" I might first conclude that they were sent to me for a reason, however that may have worked itself out.

Let's first be clear as to what murder is. Murder is not when you are forced to kill someone in order to save your life or the life of someone you care about. It's not even automatically murder to simply kill someone in and of itself. Accidentally causing someone's death is homicide or manslaughter. Murder is when you intentionally take someone's life who is posing no threat to your physical well being. In short, it's an intentional unjustified killing of another human being. It's absolutely the worst offense someone can make.

In ancient Greece, whether or not someone could atone and return to the religious community was based on what kind of killing had taken place. For self-defense or accidents, they could be purified and return. For premeditation, it may have been considered incurable at least in some instances. That's not to say they could no longer worship the Gods, but they may not be able to come back to certain temples, sanctuaries, or other religious orders in their communities. There was also no such thing as life imprisonment in ancient Greece. The City wouldn't have wanted to pay for someone for that long. You were executed or exiled if you were guilty of premeditated murder. In Early Homeric Times, murder could be cleared through reparations to the family or exile. 

It must first be kept in mind that purification was not just about the individual. If they came into a temple or participated in a City's ceremony while having such pollution, it could disrupt everything else. So it wasn't only about punishing them specifically, it was about protecting the spiritual welfare of the entire Polis. So the ultimate question is, "Can they be purified? Can the Gods remove that pollution?" Yes, they can. But only they can make that choice. They can do anything, and therefore, that means they can clear someone of murder. 

If such a man or woman came to me for help with sincere remorse after having served their sentence, I would take them to a calm place in Nature and use every means and every tool possible at my use to cleanse them of the miasma. I would start with purified water blessed by the Gods, then into sulfur purification for some of the most powerful, invoking Gods such as Zeus Kosmetes (Orderer), Zeus Hikesios (of Suppliants), Zeus Katharsios (of Ritual Purification), Zeus Prostropaios (Turner of Pollution), Zeus Soter (Savior), and Zeus Meilikhios (Gracious and Merciful). I would invoke Apollon Alexikakos (Averter of Evil), and pray for His cleansing and purifying light. I would also perform my temple's Dionysian Rite, invoking Dionysos as the God of Rebirth and life. In short, everything and everyone I could think of to free this person from the worst of crimes.

Then I would advise them to make a great sacrifice to the Gods, acknowledging their wrongdoing, accepting all the consequences, making possible reparations to the family of the deceased, and expressing sincere devotion to a better life. All of this might indeed ensure that they could start their own personal and private life as a Hellenist. As for me, I helped the suppliant as best as I could. 

As far as entering my temple, I would honestly be torn on the issue. On the one hand, I have a strong belief in redemption, simply because I believe the Gods can do anything for someone, and there were Heroes in Greek religion who atoned for terrible offenses, including murder. But I would also be compelled to think about the comfortability of the other members. Perhaps divination would be in order. I would turn to the Gods for an answer. They might advise a probationary period for the person before they could enter. There could be several possibilities. But the person could still ask for my counsel and learn from all the information out there for worshiping the Gods and being Hellenic in their own life. I would tell them that they can rebuild their own life from this point onward.

What do you think?

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Sources - 

Google, Life In Prison In Ancient Greece, 2026, Link

Google, Purification of Murder in Ancient Greece, 2026, Link

When Pegasos Flew Over In My Dreams

My family and friends know that I have dealt with a lot of anxiety and illness this year, but that I have also progressively conquered it to the point that I am no longer sick and very close to calling the game against my mental issues as well. I think that the end of this year will be when I can finally say I am cured. 

Sometimes your dreams can be messages from the Gods, and I think I have, over the years, developed the ability to tell which ones are for the most part. Back on December 18th, I went back to sleep around 7:30am, and had an amazing dream of Pegasos flying over me, and not just once, but continuously circling back around and coming back over again, all the while I was cheering him. 

I think the Gods sent him to my dreams to show me that a new time is coming in the next year and beyond, that the hardest of times are done and I have made it through. Victory over my problems is finally mine. The Gods also know how much I love Pegasus and that seeing him would bring me happiness and hope, which is something I think Pegasus embodies.

I cannot explain how wonderful it is to have this feeling of total peace and spiritual support after an entire year of anguish, sometimes thinking that I was not going to live through some of my problems. But now it's over, and I can be someone who attests, at least in my own experience, that you should never quit no matter how hopeless or painful it may seem or be. You never know how well your perseverance will end up paying off, and of course, never think the Gods cannot bring you out of it all. 

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Source

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Hindus To Erect Massive Statue In North Carolina

I became interested in this story because it's close to my hometown (Thomasville, North Carolina, about an hour away) and because it has become a major story in modern polytheism generally. Earlier this year, I wrote about my family's interfaith travels to a Hindu temple in Aurora, Illinois, which was an amazing experience for us. A recent story came out about the Hindu complex in Chatham County, North Carolina called the Carolina Murugan Temple. They are in the process of constructing a massive 155 foot statue of the Hindu God of War, Murugan. The statue will be taller than the Statue of Liberty (which is also a Deity, by the way, Libertas), and will cost 10 million dollars. There is apparently a thriving Hindu community in the area, and this project is to honor that growth and serve its people. Not only will this be taller than Lady Liberty, it will be the tallest statue of Murugan in the entire world.

I found my attention drawn to this story because it's a great step for religious freedom and diversity in North Carolina. My family and I left back in 2012, and took our Greek temple with us, because we felt the State government wasn't supportive of our rights as non-Christians, among other reasons such as employment, wages and healthcare. In other words, even if religious freedom had not been a concern of ours, there were still other things that may have moved us to the Liberal States. But I am nevertheless delighted to see said freedom flourishing in my home State. Even if State legislators refuse to stand up for minorities, they also cannot ignore the fact that they exist with something so gigantic overlooking the Tarheel State. I wish we would construct statues of Greek Gods that big as well. The problem is that the Hellenic people were disrupted and persecuted for 2,000 years, whereas the Hindus were not, so obviously they have an easier time with their religious projects. Of course, that's not to say that statues of Greek Gods don't already stand significantly in our nation. A statue of Athene overlooks the Statue of Liberty from nearby, and Themis remains the Goddess of Justice in our legal system. Not to mention that the faces of legendary ancient Greeks overlook the chamber of the Federal House of Representatives, like Solon of Athens and Lycurgus of Sparta. 

The story of the new Hindu statue has made international news. It has sparked a lot of online debate, which I do not see why. The issue here is religious freedom, no debate necessary. Why would there be arguments over it unless you believe that they should not have their religious freedom? America is a place for everyone from everywhere. All the world can come here and be free, that's what we are about. We do not belong to just one religion, one race, one ideology. We are the home of the world. I have heard it said that the money would be better spent on caring for the poor and needy in the State, and there is certainly something to be said about that, but it's also the government's responsibility to see to the general welfare of the people, and the government of North Carolina doesn't seem to have a vested interest in that, since North Carolina has one of the highest poverty rates in the nation. I think it's fine, especially for a minority religion, to use some money to support itself, establish worship centers, and make its people happy. I don't see an issue with that at all, as long as they are also using money to help those in need in their communities.

I do want to go see it in-person when it's completed. In Hellenism, the God of War is Ares and Athene is the Goddess of War who rules in alliance with Nike (Victory).

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

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Another Wonderful Experience With Apollon

A few days ago as I was in my temple standing before the Shrine of Apollon that you can see in the picture on the right, I had a profound experience that I think was to teach me a few things I desperately needed to realize in my personal life.

Well the reason I decided to go before the shrine was to ask for Apollon's counsel in divination. But to begin with, standing before His statue suddenly filled me with an immense peace that I had been lacking almost all year, which caused me to lose my way, and I came to realize that it wasn't because of the Gods, it was because of my own developed mentality.

The peace and love I felt before the Shrine of Apollon was coupled with the reading He gave me from the Olympus Tarot. Basically Apollon told me that I need to look inward and live my true self, that this is the path to my own happiness. Apollon was setting me free from my past chains that I had allowed myself to be put into by letting other people tell me what to believe and how to live. 

The lesson I was taught this year, after going through horrid anxiety, mental breakdown, and physical sickness, was that I am to never let other people tell me what I am supposed to be, or what I am. The Gods gave each person a mind, soul and a personal response entirely unique to them for good reason, because the Gods do not do that which is needless or unethical. They want a diverse world, and each one of us is here to add to that reality. On a side note, not to speak against oracles or other diviners, but I have always found that when I invoke the Gods and do a reading for myself, it always comes out different than when I allow someone else to do it for me. Sometimes this has happened a lot more than others, but I think the lesson here is that an outside source is guidance, the most powerful source is found with your own connection, however. 

This month, I have learned many new things about the Gods, even as someone who has been a Hellenist for the better part of 20 years, and it has brought me what I believe is the final chapter of peace in my life. I turned 41 this month, which according to statistics, means I have reached the midway point in my lifespan. The rest is for me to enjoy and delight in with my own truth in the Gods.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Hermes Had Something Better In Mind

A few weeks ago, I received a wonderful blessing from Hermes that I would like to share with my readers.

Back in December of 2024, I left my job at the time and came to regret it, because I realized how much I liked it, and the potential it could have had for me. It was the old feeling of not knowing what you have until you don't have it anymore. I spent the next year trying off and on to get it back, even though I knew the chances were slim because I quit without notice, a really bad mistake. But I think I also had a legitimate reason, my mental illness at the time was starting to reach its peak before I had the breakdown and recovery.

I managed to land a very small job over the spring and summer working one day a week because that was all my mind and body could handle at that point, and all that the company was willing to give me at that time. I thought that if I could get my old job back, I would be happy. Last month, I walked out to our family's altar in the outside sanctuary, made a large offering to Hermes, and asked Him to help me get my old job back, as Hermes is the God of business and commerce. 

I did not get it back, but instead, the good Hermes gave me something far better. I was given a full time position at my current job doing something that I actually really enjoy. The position came up out of the blue one day, and was offered to me, even though my performance over the year had been mostly below par because of my illness. Nevertheless, it came to me. Even though I had previously thought that my old job was my way back to happiness in terms of career, Hermes showed me that I could be even happier in something new, that I did not need to look back. 

Over all this year, the Gods brought me back with a vengeance. Midsummer, I was in bed all day, mentally and physically sick, thinking I was going to die, no real job, no money, no hope in me. Today, I am healthy again, strong, have a great job that I actually like, and excelling in my Master's degree program. The Gods can bring anyone back from anything, for they are good and always do good. I have basically started a new life, just like I wanted, but in a way that the Gods knew would be better for me. 

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

The Gods Love The Least Among Us Too - Poseidon's Wrath

As a historian, I have always said that no culture has a clean slate. We have all done things in the past we are not proud of, but then again, we are humans, we make mistakes. This is normal. The important thing is the recognition and correction of those errors. For those who may not know, the City of Sparta had a significant slave population at one point called the Helots, from a neighboring village in the south called Helos, that Sparta had conquered. When Sparta lost to the Thebans of Greece in 371 BCE, the Thebans ended slavery in the City, which resulted in a notable decline for Sparta at that point.

But in 464 BCE, another strike against the slave system took place, this time from a God. Some of the Helots sought refuge in the Temple of Poseidon Asphaleius (Poseidon of Safety) in Tainaron, which rested in the South Peloponnese, but the sanctuary itself predates the enslavement era. When the Spartans found the refugee Helots, they took them out of the temple and killed them. I'd say this was a huge violation of Xenia, since the slaves were suppliants in the presence of the God. Shortly after this, a great earthquake (Poseidon is the Earth Shaker), struck Sparta and destroyed it. This event was interpreted at the time to be punishment from Him. The Gods were believed to protect the Sacred Law of Xenia, and would deal out punishment for violating it. Still to this day, we Hellenists uphold that Law. Not to mention the obvious transgression of interrupting the worship of Poseidon and killing His worshipers.

To me, it shows not only that the Gods protect Sacred Law, but that they care for everyone who comes to them, even if they are at the lowest level of society. The slave can be loved by the Gods the same as the master, the poor the same as the rich, etc. I think that if wealth or status mattered, Poseidon would have reacted less harshly at the violation, but it was one of the most devastating natural disasters to happen to Sparta.

The moral of this post is, whenever you feel like you are a disappointment or someone the Gods don't care about, think again. 

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Links To Information:

Temple Of Poseidon Tainaron, Wikipedia The Free Encyclopedia, 2025, accessed on November 8th, 2025, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temple_of_Poseidon_(Tainaron).

Sparta, Wikipedia The Free Encyclopedia, 2025, accessed on November 8th, 2025, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sparta.

Sparta Earthquake, Wikipedia The Free Encyclopedia, 2025, accessed on November 8th, 2025, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/464_BC_Sparta_earthquake.

Xenia, Hellenic Faith, accessed on November 8th, 2025, https://hellenicfaith.com/xenia/.

How Do I Know If I Am In The Gods' Favor?

You made an offering and a request for something you didn't get, your job or relationship didn't work out, you failed a test, whatever it may be, you might wonder if the Gods are actually in your favor or not, or at least, not against you. When things don't work out or we face disappointment in life, we can get discouraged and depressed over the fact. And depression, which is a liar, can end up telling you horrible things about yourself, and the more you listen, the more your mind will start to believe it.

The first thing to remember is that some of our wants and desires may not be granted for various reasons. As much as we may think otherwise, it might not be the best route for us at that time. You might think you would really and truly be happy and better off, but the Gods know more than we do. You are where you are because of your choices, but also because of your Fate. All lives have beauty, but you'll never see that if you don't allow your eyes to see beyond distractions. As I have said in the past, there's beauty in everything if you have the right eyes. Those eyes come from the Gods. They will show you the beauty, wonder and peace in your life if you allow them. Everything has its reason, even if it might not make that much sense to you at present.

Finally, at least to my mind, a sure way to see that I am favored by the Gods is that I am still alive, healthy and doing well. We strive for the various materials of life so much that we don't realize how precious life itself is. We don't realize that we are not entitled to life in that there was no guarantee that we would be born, that we would be the ones chosen to live. Life is a gift that the Gods were good enough to grant us. And the fact that I have life, health, a good home, a loving family, and plenty of food, tells me that the Gods are not gathering to be against me at all. If the Gods were against me, I wouldn't have a leg to stand on. If the Gods didn't love me, I wouldn't be there. And if they didn't favor me, my life would be far harder than it is.

Your beautiful and continuous life itself is the proof that you are favored by the Gods. You may not be Fated to conquer the world, or even your own City. But you are thriving in the sense of life itself. That's enough to be grateful for. Even if you are sick or down on your luck, that still does not mean you are disfavored. Life always has its challenges, but that doesn't mean the Gods don't like you. The Gods are good and they always do good. And always remember, Hellenism is not about "will the Gods give me this or that," it's about living in harmony with the Gods and the Universe.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Are You Living Your Purpose?

If Fate is real, which I believe it is, how can we believe that we are expected to be anything other than what we are fated to be? During my life, I've basically been told by others to conquer everything around me, but how can I do that if I am not meant to? How can someone who is poor buy a yacht? Even people who work hard every day of their lives, will never see that kind of wealth. You have to have a certain level of good fortune in order to achieve it. But the mere act of trying your hardest is not a guarantee, and in fact, still keeps your chances very low. Wouldn't your life be better if you focused your strengths and talents on things that you could achieve? Wouldn't it be better if instead of trying to be something you're not, or that life hasn't prepared for you, you became the best that you yourself could be?

I no longer believe that I can "do anything." It's a very nice, comforting and inspirational idea, but the fact of the matter is that no one can do everything. If that were the case, there would be no diversity in the world, and no real need for the Gods to give us diverse talents and desires in life. They, I believe, want to see the most beautiful and happiest expression of yourself in the world. To build to the best of your ability. And I have grown increasingly convinced of that after my year long contact with my spiritual counselor at the Temple of Rhodes in Greece. Nowhere in ancient Greece did everyone do the same things. Some were great, others were moderate, and some were basic. But they all contributed to the glory that was the civilization. For crying out loud, Socrates was called the wisest of all men and he didn't even have a job at the time. He sat and walked around the City each day and philosophized with people. That's what we remember, not his paycheck. 

I think your Fate, in a very large measures, is grounded in what you feel called to do, and what you love to do, which is often the same thing. Now I'm not saying you should run out and quit your job and try to become a professional TV wrestler. What I'm saying is that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, their own bliss, and their own talents. When you're doing what you're meant to do, there is ultimate enjoyment. Time has no meaning. It flies by without notice. You also have no fear or anxiety, just peace, love and happiness. For me, my bliss is being a priest and a religious writer. I believe I am here to be a Hellenist and teach people about Hellenism if they want to know. I pray you find your purpose too, and have the courage to live it.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

The Gods Show Their Goodness

One thing I have found is that when I let worry take over my mind, that anxiety can cut me off from the Gods in an instant, because it's basically mental miasma, which is just as bad, may be even worse, than physical miasma. Without the mind in good working order, I might be impaired from moving forward, and my mind might even tell me things that are not true. And the worst part is that if the mind worries about something long enough, the mind will start to believe it's true. So what might have started out as an irrational fear, could end up not seeming so later on down the road. Excessive worry can also cause a pessimistic outlook on life, and this is bad because optimistic people generally live longer. Science has shown all of this.

So how do I develop and keep an optimistic outlook on life? How can I condition my brain to be positive, happy and helpful, and thus, more receptive to the Gods? Religious and philosophical leaders from ancient times to modern, stress the importance of the idea that the Gods are good and always do good. Realizing that eternal and unending goodness that comes from heaven.

I won't lie. I beat myself up a lot for my past mistakes. I am normally very hard on myself for even small things. Although I am trying harder every day to turn that course, to treat myself better and with more understanding and forgiveness, to love myself essentially. And the problem is that you can't do that by simply saying you're going to. One thing it takes is to realize that you are deserving of love, both from the Gods and yourself. They chose me in place of millions and millions of others who could have been born instead. They saw great potential in me. It's never going to produce a good life to be self-hating.

Not everyone may agree with my perspective that the Gods are all love, and that's fine. But to my mind, how else could they be our bliss? The physical and spiritual feeling and uplift that fills us when we pray and offer to the Gods, has to be based on some form of universal love, friendship, compassion, and delight that comes from above. Even after we have committed offenses and move to atone through a Propitiatory Sacrifice, the Gods are still willing to hear those prayers and accept those atonements. What could do that but love, compassion and understanding? At the very least, it's a willingness to welcome us back. Opening my mind up to all of those universally positive things, enables me to move forward, to live in peace, and be kind to my fellowman. 

So when the mind tries to descend into that deep dark hole, as it is called, I remind myself of the truth. The Gods are good and they always do good. I am worthy of love. I am not my past. This is a new day. I have wonderful potential. 

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.  

My Visit To A Hindu Temple

Yesterday, I fulfilled a plan with my wife and son that I had been talking about for a week or so, and that was to visit a local Hindu temple. The reason I wanted such an experience was because I have always been curious about Hinduism since it's the largest polytheistic religion in the world today. I also wanted my family to have an interfaith experience, and so we traveled to Aurora, Illinois, about an hour away, to visit the Sri Venkateswara Swami Balaji Temple. 

It was, to date, one of the largest polytheistic temples I have ever been to. Beautifully white with crafted towers that are tipped in gold. The outside entrance has a beautiful fountain and a garden dedicated to Ganesha, the Hindu God of wisdom, intellect and new beginnings, with several different statues of the God encircling it. The front entrance is flanked with four statues of other Hindu Gods, but I do not know their names. When we went inside, I got the impression that photography, especially on the top level where worship took place, was not liked, and so I decided to not take any pictures of the interior, but I will describe the interesting experience that we had.

Everyone has to have their legs covered, unless they're a child like my son. I went in wearing shorts, so in order to go up to the top level, I had to borrow one of their spare garments that was available at the entrance to tie around my waist, and everyone had to take their shoes off. One thing I noticed upon entering was the relentless chanting and praying coming from the top level. You walk up a red carpeted staircase to reach that level. There is a central shrine and sitting area where the Hindus gather, and encircling the room are countless shrines to their various Gods and Goddesses. People will come there, if nothing else, to just stand before the shrines and pray, meditate or dedicate themselves. Some people even lie completely on their stomachs in order to lay their entire bodies out in devotion. Regular offerings are also given to the Gods in their shrines.

Like Hellenists, the Hindus adorn their statues with garments and valuables, and like was done in the days of ancient Greece, they keep a flame lit inside the holy places where the Gods are represented and housed. The shrines varied in size, but they were all beautifully crafted with statuary, gold, and sculptures. One thing that really stood out to me was the fact that the shrines, or at least some of them, had names of sponsors. People, groups or organizations sponsor the construction, care and funding of a particular shrine, and I wish Hellenists would also do something like that around the world. It was one practice that stood out to me.

But the Hindus themselves chant and pray endlessly, presumably all day long. They never stopped the entire time we were there. The temple was filled with their voices and music. Their devotion is remarkable. They dedicate their lives to spiritual connection and ascension. Inside the temple, I felt as if there was very little interest in the outside mundane world, as it were. And the Hindu community in the area seems very strong, as there were hundreds if not thousands of people passing through and they were all clearly of Indian blood. I think my family and I were the only white people there. But we were still welcomed and not treated any differently than anyone else.

As someone who loves spiritual devotion in his own religious life, what I admired most about the Hindus was how strong and endless their own was. It has caused me to develop a great deal of respect for them. And one belief I really like about Hinduism is called Samsara, which is a spiritual goal of eventually breaking free of the cycle of birth and death, where there is no longer any reincarnation, just total spiritual ascension and liberation, where you are forever free from the physical and material world. 

Before we left, I felt we should show a basic level of respect to the temple, so my wife and I turned and bowed at the entrance. Hellenists, as our religious ancestors did, have respect for other cultures. We do not think that ours should be the only one. Hinduism itself is continuing to grow across the world. In the previous decade, their numbers rose by 100 million. I hope we learned a lot about another people. 

In the Goodness of the Gods, 

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road, 

Chris Aldridge.

Like Being Back From The Dead

I've told my friends and readers over the summer that I suffered from a severe mental breakdown. It was so bad I could not get out of bed, and it even resulted in physical pain in my stomach for a long time, because as you may know, the brain function can impact gut health. I could barely stand. Quite honestly, the feeling of death was all over me, and I thought it might be the end. But fortunately, it wasn't. I progressively got better, the pain eventually went away, and I was able to resume basic life after a couple of months. But what I want to talk about here today is what I think may have happened to me on a spiritual level.

I have seriously entertained the thought that the Gods knocked me down to teach me some valuable lessons. While I've been extremely devout, I haven't always been a humble person, nor one who is thankful for what he has in life. Sometimes I would even criticize people for not living the same kind of life I was at the time. As Hesiod said, Zeus withers the proud. And not being grateful for the things you have is, I think, also another form of arrogance. No matter what I had, it was never good enough for me. I complained so much.

When the breakdown and extreme fatigue first set in, I went to two sets of doctors. They did blood tests, a urinalysis, and an EKG. There was nothing physically wrong with me. It was my mind, without which the body cannot function. All I knew to do at the time was go home and lie down, wondering if it was ever going to end or if I was mentally disabled from this day forward. I could barely even eat, resulting in noticable weight loss.

It was the worst illness of my life. Everything in my life suffered, and I felt so lost and alone. I even explored other religions for a short time, because of how hopeless I felt, but the Gods were showing me that I am nothing without them, that I might even be able to find help in another deity, but it still won't be enough; I need the Greek Gods. And equally important, that I am no better than anyone else. 

I also think I put too much mental pressure on myself over this year, which led to the ultimate breakdown in the summer. I was trying to take on more than I could handle, trying to be more than human perhaps, which is something I cannot be. In so many ways, I needed to learn my place.

I learned well, and yesterday, I felt like the lesson was over. I was up out of bed, smiling, praising the Gods, loving everyone, and thinking of only good things to come. I felt like I had my life back. One of my friends on social media even commented to me, "Welcome back to the land of the living."

In the Goodness of the Gods,

Chris Aldridge.

Passing Through This Place

I turned 40 last year, and as time has passed, I found myself growing increasingly aware of the fact that I'm getting older, and to be frank, it has scared me greatly. It was incredibly interesting because, for years, I struggled with thoughts of suicide. But after reaching 40, I realized how badly I want to live and how much I cherish life. But in so realizing, fear grows as well, because you start to struggle with the concept of your own mortality, that each day is one step closer to the inevitable. When you get older, you start to think about what it will be like when you never wake up again.

I began to remember all the people I have lost throughout my life, such as my grandparents, my dad, and really good friends who died too young. It's hard to lessen the pain. In fact, you might even blame yourself for not being there for them more.

Last week, I took a trip back home to North Carolina to see what remains of my family and friends, in hopes it would better my mood. My grandmother Joyce did give me a bright light of hope when she told me something that I had never thought of before but that was obvious. People in my family tend to live a long time unless they do something to shorten it, such as drinking and smoking and bad eating. But even then, some of my family members lived into their 70s. I imagine they'd still be alive if they had lived healthier.

But even so, no one can live in this current body forever. Everything in this life seems so fragile and temporary. Because it is. So how do we cope with it? Do we just accept it and enjoy life while we have it, not letting it bother us because it's useless to worry about anyway? Perhaps.

I find myself crying for everyone who has passed on these days, because their lives mattered, and they all made some kind of impact on others or the world around them. The people in our lives are one of a kind. The relationships we form will never again exist except in this lifetime. And so, we must love and nurture those relationships and the experiences we have in the world.

Remembering my beliefs also made me realize something else. I have said that I want to live forever, and I have come to realize that that is possible, just not with this body. This old body eventually has to go. So perhaps soon I won't be worried about it anymore. I know the Gods are with my soul.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Blessings In Your Everyday Life

Throughout our daily lives, we tend to overlook the small, yet influential and meaningful blessings that the Gods, Spirits and Heroes may give us. And thus, we don't notice them in our busy and sometimes stressful lives. But they are important to take note of, because they give us peace, purpose and even enlightenment, and make us realize that even in our worst times, perhaps life isn't so bad. It goes all the way back to the writings of Homer in The Odyssey when we're basically taught to recognize a good omen when we see it.

I'll give you an example from my own life recently. During one of my outings on a regular day, I decided to stop by the local Exxon Mobil and cash in some of my old lottery scratch off tickets, worth about $6. I bought a couple of new ones with it and hit $50. Certainly not a shopping spree, but it was enough for me to enjoy the rest of the day to myself, some time away from home and work. And so, recognizing it as a small blessing of leisure that could only do me good at that point in my life, I took it and enjoyed myself.

To a lot of people, such an event might not seem significant at all, but not if you know how to see everyday blessings. But it's not just immediate things like that. Consider your life, your health, your family, the nice weather, the fact that you have a job, a spouse, children, food, a home and a comfy bed. There are so many everyday blessings that you never take note of, but should.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Why, Christofors, Do You Worship The Greek Gods? Well, Friend, I Shall Elaborate

First and foremost, the Gods are everything. If we are to believe, as the Orphic Hymns suggest, that they are in everything, even in the air we venerate (Hymn to Hera), then we live and breathe the Gods. Each day, they give us what we need for our survival, success and also enjoyment of life. I worship them in gratitude for all that they give and do for humanity, the world and universe. It's about their due honor. Rarely do I worship the Gods because I want something in return. It's about respecting what is and being grateful for what I have as a human being.

Second, simply the pleasure of it. Praying and offering to the Gods on a daily basis brings bliss into my life. It's not uncommon at all for a Hellenist to feel extremely wonderful each time they pray, pour a libation or perform a ritual, and that's because the presence of the Gods is simply wondrous. It releases of all pain, fear and worry, and lifts you into a higher state. Simply put, I do it because of the bliss. 

Third, I have dedicated my life to the Gods. Not only because I am a priest, but because they have done so much for me and my family during my lifetime, more than I may be worthy of in life, I don't know. But for the blessings they have given thus far, it's the splendor that a man can ask for, and thus, I am grateful. 

If nothing else, I would do it simply because of how amazing the Gods are. Their history, religion, myths, mysteries, temples, all of the things that make them intriguing and wonderful. There is a common human need to have something higher than ourselves. We are born looking for the Gods. It gives us purpose beyond the mundane, if you want to call it that. When we know there's more to this life than just the basics, we tend to become happier and more enlightened.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Body and Blood of a God - To Drive Out Depression

There is a Hellenic ritual that I believe so very strongly in because it has worked for me countless times over. I call it The Dionysian Rite, and it does, in fact, have ancient Greek origins.

The belief in wine being the blood of the vine is very ancient, and the concept of ingesting the body and blood of a God is not unique to the Christian religion. It, also, is very ancient. Christianity is also not the first religion to have a Savior God. That, too, is ancient, and while more than one Greek God carried the Epithet of Savior, Dionysos is known as the God of life who returned from death.

This rite was probably done in a Cult setting with specific instructions, but we can also adopt cultic practices in modern Hellenism. Dionysos had worshipers who would attack, kill and eat a bull (the sacred animal of Dionysos), and in so doing, considered themselves to be eating the God's body and drinking His blood. I adopted this concept for my own temple, using chocolate (an ecstatic food) along with wine or grape juice to be the body and blood of Dionysos, since Dionysos is also the God of ecstasy and wine and grapes. Now, if you can find pieces of chocolate shaped like a bull, that would be of the most ideal, but if not, a typical piece will do. The richer the better, and the more pure and fresh the wine or grape juice, the better.

While this is a practice I have adopted for my temple's general activity, it also has many benefits for the personal human body. It's important to remember that while this ritual mirrors others in modern time, it's not about salvation from our humanity, because our humanity is not damned, it's blessed. There is no "cross to bear." Dionysos reminds us that it's alright to live.

Whenever I am feeling depressed or anxious, I have found that the ritual does wonders for freeing me from it and returning me to the lively world. Depression and anxiety is a form of death for the human system, and thus when life is fused back into you, it pushes the death out. I don't even have to do it in a formal setting. I just hold the chocolate in my hand, and before eating it, I say, "Body or Spirit of Dionysos." And if I drink wine or grape juice, "Blood of Dionysos." The depression, and any other ailment of the mind and spirit I may be feeling, is then dissolved. Of course, it may be beneficial beforehand to ask Dionysos to bless the food and drink as His blessings upon the "food of joy and the drink of the vine."

I'm not saying that someone should give up medical treatment for their depression or other mental illnesses. I'm simply saying that adding spirituality to it, might be the completion to the cure you need. Again, I believe so strongly in the power of this rite that I encourage fellow Hellenists and Pagans to give it a try.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

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Hellenic Ideas: Low Cost Shrines

The more I practice my daily rites at my personal shrine and altar, the more I realize that you don't need massive temples or worship space to be a good practicing Hellenist. The large temples of course have their immense value, but you don't have to have one. 

In the picture on the left, I have put together a prayer space that I don't think has been shown before in modern Hellenism, at least not on my site. But I came up with the idea this past Saturday after visiting a new Pagan supplier in Freeport, Illinois.

This style of shrine combines some of Minoan, ancient Doric Greece, and some modern Spiritualism. The Minoan comes from the tree sanctuary, where a single pillar was set up in the precinct of the tree and surrounded by a wall. The column is from the Doric era of ancient Greece. And at the bottom are precious spiritual stones. One is Pink Mangano Calcite (which aids in a connection to Divine love) and Opalite (which helps improve spiritual communication).

And just to verify, the stones do work very well. Just by holding them, I felt immense peace and love flowing through me. In fact, it may encourage me to do more stone work in a Hellenic format in the future. There was most certainly such a thing as sacred stones in ancient Greek culture, religion and mythology, such as the Baetylus, which was a sacred stone pillar that was used as a specific cultic symbol of a God. Or my personal favorite, the Navel of the Earth stone at Delphi.

At this point, all one needs in addition is incense and an incense burner as a way to do daily offerings, and they can offer and pray here to any of the Greek Gods they so desire or need to; that's the first best part about it. The second best part is that it costs very little to construct. This column is held up by a wall niche, and is only a foot or a little over tall, and can be painted any color(s), and the stones were 90 cents a piece, which means you could probably buy as many or as diverse of a collection as you want, depending on your spiritual needs and focus.

Finally, it takes up very little room. I set this up next to my bedside for the photo, in the far corner of the room. It does not impose on anything at all. Literally, anyone can build a consecrate one.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

All The Reasons To Give Offerings and Sacrifices to The Gods

Many of us give offerings to the Gods on a daily basis, but have we ever really stopped to examine why we do so, beyond the simple fact that it's in our religious customs? Some people may not even see the need for such expressions and actions, but they are very important. 

I want to begin by saying that I do not worship and offer to the Gods merely because I want them to give me something. I do it because I love them and enjoy their presence. They make life more blissful. 

1, We give offerings to the Gods because it is their due honor. After all, they are the Gods. As the rulers of all the universe, they deserve reverence.

2, To show gratitude for what has been given, and what may be given in the future - reciprocity. It's basic decency that when someone gives you something, you give them something in return.

3, To ensure continued relationship. The more we connect with the Gods in good and positive ways, showing the first two realities listed above, the more we ensure their favor in our lives. 

4, Finally, to simply show how much you love the Gods. When it comes to those you love, like your family and friends, you show them expressions of that love. The Gods are no different. Through all that we do, from simple prayers to complex hymns, offerings, sacrifices, dances, and other religious services, we show the Gods how much we love and adore them. For me personally, I think people would notice that I am normally always doing something for the Gods. Even if it's just restoring and painting a statue, writing a new prayer, building a new sanctuary, or upkeeping the older ones. I am always trying to think of something new I can do today, and if you are in the same boat, here's a list of things you can do for the Gods on a daily basis,

• Paint/restore a statue.
• Paint a statue.
• Write a new prayer or hymn.
• Build a sanctuary.
• Build a new shrine.
• Learn something new about the Gods or ancient Greece.
• Care for places sacred to the Gods.
• Journal your experiences with the Gods or Heroes.
• Start a temple or an online group dedicated to the Gods in some way.

In the Goodness of the Gods,

I'll see you at the next Herm down the road,

Chris Aldridge.

Will You Go To The Asphodel Meadows?

The ancient Greek Underworld is a fascinating place. In fact, the entire afterlife of ancient Greece is profound and capitavating because there are so many possibilities. A lot of Hellenists believe in reincarnation because it's talked about in Plato. But I'm more traditional; I believe in the Underworld and the many roads that proceed from it. I do not deny the possibility of reincarnation, but I do believe that most of us will go to some place that the Underworld leads us to. There are three main realms, two of them being extremes. Elysium/Isle of the Blessed is where the most virtuous souls go, and Tartaros is where exceptionally wicked people are sent to be punished. Tartaros is our version of Hell, except one could argue that it's not an eternal sentence. Once the price has been paid, the soul can leave. 

Then there's the Asphodel Meadows. This is where "ordinary" people go, those who are neither good nor evil. It's considered the destination of most souls. The name, Asphodel, means flowery and fertile. The flowers that cover it are ghostly looking in color, and the atmosphere is like overcast. Which, I must confess, I initially do not find pleasant because I love sunshine, but then again, we don't know everything about the afterlife until we have actually ventured there. Asphodel flowers actually do the best in sunlight, so who knows? There may indeed be sun there.

Do you consider yourself "ordinary?" Do you think you are more likely to go to Asphodel? I asked my wife this question, and she said she does plenty of extraordinary things that common people are either unable or unwilling to do, especially for poor and homeless people. I think I am more than ordinary as well, because I've started a lot of people on their path to Hellenism with my works. I have helped to rebuild ancient Greek religion in the modern world, even though it's a small contribution. So I cannot say where I will go. But we will all go to one of these 3 places. Unless you become a Hero, then you will ascend.

But there is one thing that I am indeed certain of. Unless you live an evil life, there is nothing to fear.

Picture Attribution: By SuperJew - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=56861127